Sites like FetLife

01 · Entity

About FetLife

FetLife fetlife.com

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Wikidata: adult social networking website

Top 10K · #1,238 English 5 technologies Crawled Nov 6, 2026

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Summary by Claude

A social networking website for people interested in BDSM, fetishism and kink, with member profiles, discussion groups, event listings and user-posted content. It presents itself as a social network rather than a dating site.

Who it’s for

Adults in the BDSM and kink community

Business model

Optional paid memberships

• adult social network
• BDSM community
• kink social network
• fetish groups
• munch and event listings
• discussion forums
• member profiles

02 · Embedding space

Competitor map

Each alternative by how close its vector is to FetLife’s (x) and how much traffic it gets, how much of the stack it shares, or where it sits in the embedding space itself (y). Lines split each axis at the median. Hover for the numbers, click to jump to it in the list.

We can’t read fetlife.com’s homepage (HTTP 403), so it’s compared on what Wikidata and Wikipedia say about it.

1. 01
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   adult social networking website

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   0 say Fab Swingers is a good alternative to FetLife 0 say Fab Swingers isn’t a real alternative to FetLife

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2. 02
   LinkedIn linkedin.com Top 100 English

   LinkedIn: Log In or Sign Up

   1 billion members | Manage your professional identity. Build and engage with your professional network. Access knowledge, insights and opportunities.

   • Cloudflare
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   • Apple Business
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   • Azure DNS
   • DocuSign

   0 say LinkedIn is a good alternative to FetLife 0 say LinkedIn isn’t a real alternative to FetLife

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   Very close cos 0.907
3. 03
   Dribbble dribbble.com Top 10K English

   promotion & networking platform for digital designers and creatives

   • Google Search Console
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   0 say Dribbble is a good alternative to FetLife 0 say Dribbble isn’t a real alternative to FetLife

   Comment
   Very close cos 0.903
4. 04
   ResearchGate researchgate.net Top 1K English

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   commercial scientific social network

   • Cloudflare
   • Cloudflare DNS
   • Google Search Console
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   0 say ResearchGate is a good alternative to FetLife 0 say ResearchGate isn’t a real alternative to FetLife

   Comment
   Very close cos 0.898
5. 05
   EroMe erome.com Top 1K English

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   • Cloudflare DNS
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   0 say EroMe is a good alternative to FetLife 0 say EroMe isn’t a real alternative to FetLife

   Comment
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6. 06
   MyAnimeList myanimelist.net Top 10K English

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   • Google Search Console
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   0 say MyAnimeList is a good alternative to FetLife 0 say MyAnimeList isn’t a real alternative to FetLife

   Comment
   Close cos 0.892
7. 07
   VK vk.com Top 1K English

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   • Google Search Console
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   • PHP
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   0 say VK is a good alternative to FetLife 0 say VK isn’t a real alternative to FetLife

   Comment
   Close cos 0.891
8. 08
   Bumble bumble.com Top 10K English

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   • Google Search Console
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   0 say Bumble is a good alternative to FetLife 0 say Bumble isn’t a real alternative to FetLife

   Comment
   Close cos 0.888
9. 09
   500px 500px.com Top 10K English

   photo sharing website

   • Google Search Console
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   • Amazon SES
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   0 say 500px is a good alternative to FetLife 0 say 500px isn’t a real alternative to FetLife

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10. 10
    GameBanana gamebanana.com Top 10K English

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    • Cloudflare
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    0 say GameBanana is a good alternative to FetLife 0 say GameBanana isn’t a real alternative to FetLife

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11. 11
    Literotica literotica.com Top 10K English

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    • Google Search Console
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12. 12
    VK vk.ru Top 1K English

    VK.com | VK

    social networking service from Russia

    • Google Search Console
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    • Meta Business Suite
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    0 say VK is a good alternative to FetLife 0 say VK isn’t a real alternative to FetLife

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13. 13
    match.com Top 10K English

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    • Cloudflare
    • Cloudflare DNS
    • Google Search Console
    • Google Workspace
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    0 say match.com is a good alternative to FetLife 0 say match.com isn’t a real alternative to FetLife

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14. 14
    nHentai nhentai.net Top 10K English

    dōjin hentai manga website

    • Cloudflare
    • Cloudflare DNS
    • Google Search Console
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    0 say nHentai is a good alternative to FetLife 0 say nHentai isn’t a real alternative to FetLife

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15. 15
    Product Hunt producthunt.com Top 10K English

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    • Cloudflare
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    0 say Product Hunt is a good alternative to FetLife 0 say Product Hunt isn’t a real alternative to FetLife

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16. 16
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    • Cloudflare
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    0 say F95zone is a good alternative to FetLife 0 say F95zone isn’t a real alternative to FetLife

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17. 17
    Ravelry ravelry.com Top 10K English

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    • Google Workspace
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18. 18
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    • Cloudflare
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    0 say Fur Affinity is a good alternative to FetLife 0 say Fur Affinity isn’t a real alternative to FetLife

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19. 19
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    • Cloudflare
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    0 say Stack Exchange is a good alternative to FetLife 0 say Stack Exchange isn’t a real alternative to FetLife

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20. 20
    PimpBunny pimpbunny.com Top 10K English

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    • Google Search Console
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    0 say PimpBunny is a good alternative to FetLife 0 say PimpBunny isn’t a real alternative to FetLife

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Ranked by score: the cosine similarity of each site’s vector to fetlife.com’s, less a small penalty for generic sites that are close to everything. Highlighted technologies are ones FetLife uses too. Votes and comments come from visitors and don’t change the ranking.

04 · Fingerprints

Technology

What FetLife is built with, and what its closest competitors use, from its homepage’s code and its DNS records.